DATING,
         I've come to discover dating is more complicated than what many people thinks. When we go on a date everyone has his own expectations, some want something casual that will pass by until his next fling but others are looking for something permanent. Some are looking forward to get marriage out of it.
        So things get really complicated when people stop being honest with one another, we keep saying what the other person wants us to say, what they want to hear rather than what we think. So you drag the relationship along with dishonest and secrets, and trying to make something like that work needs some hard work, if will it ever work.
         What I'm saying is be honest from the get go, it doesn't matter if you are desperate or not. You'd rather lose a thousand dates than being in a relationship that's full of secrets and lies and at the end of the day wind up heart broken.