This is another thing I find very delicate, and something that we as human needs so much. The sad thing is some of us take it for granted; we use our friends, we try to control them, and worse we always lie to them and hide things from them. why is that? Why do people lie to the very people they are not supposed to lie to?
They say the ones you love will hurt you the most, and I guess that is right. But how do you make the pain go away? How do you build the friendship back up? How do you build that trust again? because you can't just pretend everything is okay while nothing is.
Or is it better to just keep hiding things from them so that the friendship can last a little longer or even forever. If we just keep this one single big secret from them. If it were up to me I would've kept the secret its not like it will hurt anyone anyway. But why does it feel so wrong?
I don't understand, I'm confused. May be it's better not to have friends at all. Friendship may seem like the simplest thing in the world but it's not. Do not underestimate its power. It can be pretty delicate and once it's gone that's the time you'll its value and by that time it'll be too late.
Every friendship works on it's own way, mine were always casual nothing too deep, so I don't know anything about serious friendship. Just don't take it for granted.
