DATING,
         I've come to discover dating is more complicated than what many people thinks. When we go on a date everyone has his own expectations, some want something casual that will pass by until his next fling but others are looking for something permanent. Some are looking forward to get marriage out of it.
        So things get really complicated when people stop being honest with one another, we keep saying what the other person wants us to say, what they want to hear rather than what we think. So you drag the relationship along with dishonest and secrets, and trying to make something like that work needs some hard work, if will it ever work.
         What I'm saying is be honest from the get go, it doesn't matter if you are desperate or not. You'd rather lose a thousand dates than being in a relationship that's full of secrets and lies and at the end of the day wind up heart broken.

FRIENDSHIP;

           This is another thing I find very delicate, and something that we as human needs so much. The sad thing is some of us take it for granted; we use our friends, we try to control them, and worse we always lie to them and hide things from them. why is that? Why do people lie to the very people they are not supposed to lie to?
           They say the ones you love will hurt you the most, and I guess that is right. But how do you make the pain go away? How do you build the friendship back up? How do you build that trust again? because you can't just pretend everything is okay while nothing is.
              Or is it better to just keep hiding things from them so that the friendship can last a little longer or even forever. If we just keep this one single big secret from them. If it were up to me I would've kept the secret its not like it will hurt anyone anyway. But why does it feel so wrong?
           I don't understand, I'm confused. May be it's better not to have friends at all. Friendship may seem like the simplest thing in the world but it's not. Do not underestimate its power. It can be pretty delicate and once it's gone that's the time you'll its value and by that time it'll be too late.
        Every friendship works on it's own way, mine were always casual nothing too deep, so I don't know anything about serious friendship. Just don't take it for granted.